Relationships....

1 Corinthians 13:4–8a 
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails ...

we know what love is now, I didn't make none of it up, the scriptures backs it all up. nowadays especially us youths, we confuse lust with love of infatuation when we are in a relationship. The bible lets us know that "Jacob worked seven years to pay for Rachel. But his love for her was so strong that it seemed to him but a few days." if your boyfriend cannot wait for marriage to have sex with you, or make love to you then BE OUT! as soon as possible. LOVE IS NOT FORNICATION OR ADULTERY! 

Jesus Christ showed us REAL LOVE by dying for us on the cross and giving up himself for the sins you and i committed... now let's not confuse ourselves i am not saying that your boyfriend must die for you, in order for you to know that he loves you (vice versa).

when we find ourselves single,both male and female, this is time the for us to focus on ourselves and on God.Matthew 22:37–39 -Jesus said to him, 'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbour as yourself.' Work on you first before trying to work yourself out with another human being. working on you means studying the word, continue to surround yourself with people that will help you in the glorification of the lord. let your bible be your guide and light. continue to pray for your Adam, that wherever he is God should send him to you at the appointed time.  some people see the single life as loneliness but NO! you must feel complete in Christ, when you know who you are in Christ, the love you are getting from God is enough so when God sends you your Adam the love he'd be sharing with you would just be bonus. 
if you continue to live in fear about your relationship with a man, then it is most likely the wrong relationship for you because the book of 1 John 4:18 says that "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love". 

Some of us are blessed enough to hear from God about who are husband is and so on, when things fall apart, it doesn't mean God was lying, or the spirit lied, or your dream was fake, always remember that God is WORKING ON YOU!!!! sometimes God changes the plan but his words always prevail take Moses for example: God said he would lead the Israelites to the promise land but after Moses made a mistake, his mistake was calling the children of God "rebellious rebels", he crossed the line with God because God said he had already blessed the Israelites, so when Moses put his Two cents into it he had to suffer. you see God is a God of principle, now relating it back to the relationship, if you continue to fornicate in your relationship and say because God said this that.. Don't be a fool, God will change the situation and you'd have to learn the hard way. I DID! it's not like God is punishing us, his just trying to prove a point because the minute we allow fornication into a so called "godly" relationship we allow the devil also into the relationship. God did not say in the bible that LOVE is fornication, adultery etc. but LOVE is patience love is kind, if your man or woman can do this or you can do this then KEEP GOING but don't be discouraged or lose hope in love just because one relationship didn't work out, and you really loved that person even if your both in love with Christ.. sometimes it just means that's not where God wants you to be or y'all need to separate for a reason or so. AT THE END OF THE DAY God NEVER make mistakes.... 


Be Blessed 
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Grace Adenuga